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This memorial website was createdin the memory of our loved one,Tracy Ann Weinshrott - Richardswho was born in Wisconsin on August 24, 1975 and passedaway due to depression/suicide on July 20, 2004 at the age of 28.We will remember her forever.The past is history. The future, a mystery.But we will hold dear our memories of her,her smile, the sound of her laughter...forever.


www.suicidology.org/associations/1045/files/SOS_handbook.pdf
Please check out the links under Her Legacy
*New post* the pages from the book "Those They Left Behind"
By: Karen Mueller Bryson, Ph.D.
http://www.homestead.com/thosetheyleftbehind/
Emotional abuse is a devastating, debilitating heart and soul mutilation. The deepest lasting wound with any abuse is the emotional wound.
Though harder to spot, emotional abuse is easier to deny. But just as physical abuse has signposts to mark its presence, emotional abuse, being a systematic attack on one's sense of self, has common traits. Physical abuse comes in degrees of severity - emotional abuse also runs the gamut of intensity and damage.
There are relationships, marriages and families that are so destructive the only option is for a person to get out. Get out with the little bit of sanity you may have remaining. Make a promise to yourself to leave. Leave so you can begin a life of healing and recovery. Leave so you can learn to live a joyful, peaceful, trusting, supportive, and fulfilling life.
 "In memory of Tracy & Cody"



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2cnRXmMn2Ag&NR=1
It's a six yr. old girl singing "Somewhere Over the Rainbow"
www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7j8NhBtnpw
"I will always love you" sung by: Connie Talbot






Her Journey's Just Begun
Don't think of her as gone away- her journey has just begun life holds many facets the Earth is only one
Just think of her as resting from the sorrows and the tears in a place of warmth and comfort where there are no days and years
Think how she must be wishing that we could know today how nothing but our sadness can really pass away
And think of her as living in the hearts of those she touched
For nothing loved is ever lost And she is loved so very much
~ author: Ellen Brenneman

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Remember
her love her smile her laugh her sparkling brown eyes her courage her life
Remember
her tears her pain her anguish her fight her death
Just remember her

KEEP MY MEMORY by Allison Chambers Coxsey
Keep my memory with you, For memories never die; I will be there with you, When you look across the sky.
I will be there in the clouds, In the birds that fill the air; In the beauty of a fragrant rose, You will find my memory there.
You will feel me in the tenderness, Of a tiny baby's touch; You will hear me if you listen, In the twilight's gentle hush.
When your hearts are heavy, And you feel that you are alone; Just reach down deep inside of you, For your heart is now my home.
I will always be with you, I will never go away; For I will live on in your hearts, Forever and a day.

"Christopher Robin?," whispered Pooh. "Yes, Pooh Bear?" "I'll never not remember you...ever." (from a card 2 of her friends sent to us)
 Wake up with tears on my face Don't remember my dreams But I remember you
Time stands still The pain never leaves My heart aches for you
Why did this happen Searching for a reason Nothing makes sense
For the rest of my life I'll wonder why
Missing your smile The sound of your voice I'll remember you always







"The time came when the pain it took to stay, was greater than the pain it took to go"

She is Gone
 You can shed tears that she is gone or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left.
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her and only that she’s gone or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back or you can do what she’d want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
David Harkins, © 1981 Silloth, Cumbria, UK

An Old Irish Blessing May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
(These two poems were read by Tracy's cousin JoAnn at the cemetery.)

"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.."


Listen closely to the winds, and hear the gentle whisper of an Angel's wings in flight.
Look far into the sky and see the shimmering stardust left behind.
Close your eyes, clear your thoughts, and feel the love of your very own, very real, Guardian Angel.
~Author Unknown

    
Tracy, I had my baby 3-28-07 @ 23 weeks, and she was stillborn. Please watch over our baby girl. We named her Angel Brook Taormino. I know with you up in heaven she will be safe and well cared for. Give her a kiss for me please. Love Alisha Taormino

http://angelbrook-taormino.memory-of.com/

    

Bella's gift will be (amongst others) the improved safety for children in cars.
http://isabelle-broadhead.memory-of.com/About.aspx


"Thank you" Alisha

The mention of my child's name
may bring tears to my eyes,
But it never fails
to bring music to my ears.
If you are really my friend,
Let me hear the
beautiful music of her name.
It soothes my broken heart
& sings to my soul........

A Message to my Daughter
We walked together, you and I A Mother and her Daughter We had Hopes and Dreams for tomorrow..... But tomorrow didn't come.
We walked together you and I We talked, we laughed we loved. We shared so many happy times, And for that I thank the Lord above.
We walked together, you and I But only for a short time. For all too soon it ended Leaving pieces of a broken heart behind
And even though I miss you More than words could ever say. I thank God that I got to walk with you Every precious moment of every day....
"Thank You" to Irena Hill (UK) (Nanny to angel Kayleigh Erceg )

"Healing from grief is not the process of forgetting, it is the process of remembering with less pain and more joy."






"Thank You" to Laurri ((((Rosie's mom))))
http://rosie-lowe.memory-of.com/About.aspx







Tracy's brother & sister Sept. 12, 2004


“Some people will surprise you because they’re there for you, and some will surprise you because they’re not.”




Tracy's Grandpa & Grandma St. Charles cemetery

Grandparents High School photo
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Abusive Relationships / Nancy (Mom)
If you are in a “stormy” relationship there are certain questions you need to ask yourself, and the honest answers to those questions can help you to make the choice of whether to stay with that person or to leave the relationship. &...
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Emotional Abuse / Nancy (mom)
Emotional abuse is any behavior that is designed to control another person through the use of fear, humiliation, and verbal or physical assaults. It can include verbal abuse and constant criticism to more subtle tactics like intimidation, manipulatio...
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Almost 4 years... / Nancy (Mom)
Next Friday is Seva Jean's 5TH birthday her party will be held on Sunday. Her 1st birthday party was the last family get together that Tracy attended...I have a few photos of her from that day.The other night we were at the park waiting for the firew...
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S.O.B. / Nancy (Mom)
He thought his dreams were more important,expected her to hold him up.In his illness where reality hides behind lies.What a coward he has always been...the truth scares him.His hold on sanity is tenuous,it continues to baffle his mind.Can't grasp why...
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Family Ties / Nancy (mom)
Family ties are precious bondsWoven through the years,With memories of togethernessBy laughter, love and tears.Family ties are cherished thingsForged in happy childhood days,By love of parents deep and true,By tradition and family ways.Family ties ar...
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Pain / Nancy (Mom) Read >> |
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Tracy's Wedding Dress / Nancy (Mom) Read >> |
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WE DO NOT NEED A SPECIAL DAY / Nancy (mom) Read >> |
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I remember / Nancy (mom) Read >> |
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Tracy's Plant / Nancy (mom) Read >> |
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memories... / Nancy (mom) Read >> |
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How to Dance in the Rain / Nancy (Mom) Read >> |
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Her legacy |
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More than a Sister..... Tracy was more than a sister to me, she was one of my best friends. Starting when we were little, I looked up to her. I thought she was perfect and wanted to be just like her. I have so many good memories of our childhood and growing up together. Tracy and I shared a room for several years and she always used to trick me into cleaning it and I always fell for it. I used to borrow her clothes without asking and she would get mad at me. When she was in high school she would take me shopping and out for lunch. After I graduated from High School we became alot closer. I found out that she wasn't perfect like I had thought and that made me like her more. I started working at the movie theatre with her and we played on a softball team together. We had so much fun together......we would laugh to the point of crying. We always used to tease my mom together. On my mom's birthday last year Tracy and I were driving past a car dealership that was having a sale and had huge amounts of balloons. Tracy said to me, "Lets come back after dark and steal those balloons for mom!" We ended up just asking if we could have the balloons and they gave them to us. We put them on the front porch and waited for my mom to go outside and find them. We just laughed alot together. The last several months of her life we took lots of walks together and talked about everything...little stuff and big stuff. I always knew that I could tell Tracy anything and she wouldn't judge me, she would just listen and probably laugh with me. I used to stop by the movie theatre when she was working and just hang out there with her. I stood up for her when she got married and am sad that she wasn't able to do the same for me. I had always said that my sister was going to be my only bridesmaid when I got married, since I couldn't have her I had my brother, that way I wasn't replacing Tracy with anyone. I know she was there with me in spirit that day and I think she will be there in spirit for me the rest of my life. I miss her so much, my heart just aches at the thought of her being gone. I remember saying after her funeral that I don't have a sister anymore...but thats not true....Tracy will always be with me in my heart, she is a part of me and always will be. Tracy gave me a necklace for Christmas many years back that was half a heart and said *little sister* and she had one that said *big sister*. I now wear both halves of the heart...... so when I am having a bad day I reach up and touch my necklace and know that Tracy is close by. I love you Tracy and I always will.
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Tracy's Photo Album |
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