Memorial website in the memory of your loved one
This memorial website was created
in the memory of our loved one,
Tracy Ann Weinshrott - Richards
who was born in Wisconsin on
August 24, 1975 and passed
away due to depression/suicide
on July 20, 2004 at the age of 28.
We will remember her forever.

The past is history. The future, a mystery.
But we will hold dear our memories of her,
her smile, the sound of her laughter...forever.





www.suicidology.org/associations/1045/files/SOS_handbook.pdf


Please check out the links under Her Legacy

*New post* the pages from the book "Those They Left Behind"

By: Karen Mueller Bryson, Ph.D.

http://www.homestead.com/thosetheyleftbehind/



Emotional abuse is a devastating, debilitating heart and soul mutilation. The deepest lasting wound with any abuse is the emotional wound.


Though harder to spot, emotional abuse is easier to deny. But just as physical abuse has signposts to mark its presence, emotional abuse, being a systematic attack on one's sense of self, has common traits. Physical abuse comes in degrees of severity - emotional abuse also runs the gamut of intensity and damage.

There are relationships, marriages and families that are so destructive the only option is for a person to get out. Get out with the little bit of sanity you may have remaining. Make a promise to yourself to leave. Leave so you can begin a life of healing and recovery. Leave so you can learn to live a joyful, peaceful, trusting, supportive, and fulfilling life.



"In memory of Tracy & Cody"








http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2cnRXmMn2Ag&NR=1

It's a six yr. old girl singing "Somewhere Over the Rainbow"

www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7j8NhBtnpw

"I will always love you" sung by: Connie Talbot




















Her Journey's Just Begun

Don't think of her as gone away-
her journey has just begun
life holds many facets
the Earth is only one

Just think of her as resting
from the sorrows and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days and years

Think how she must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away

And think of her as living
in the hearts of those she touched

For nothing loved is ever lost
And she is loved so very much

~ author: Ellen Brenneman



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Remember

her love
her smile
her laugh
her sparkling brown eyes
her courage
her life

Remember

her tears
her pain
her anguish
her fight
her death

Just remember her





KEEP MY MEMORY
by Allison Chambers Coxsey

Keep my memory with you,
For memories never die;
I will be there with you,
When you look across the sky.

I will be there in the clouds,
In the birds that fill the air;
In the beauty of a fragrant rose,
You will find my memory there.

You will feel me in the tenderness,
Of a tiny baby's touch;
You will hear me if you listen,
In the twilight's gentle hush.

When your hearts are heavy,
And you feel that you are alone;
Just reach down deep inside of you,
For your heart is now my home.

I will always be with you,
I will never go away;
For I will live on in your hearts,
Forever and a day.



"Christopher Robin?," whispered Pooh. "Yes, Pooh Bear?"
"I'll never not remember you...ever."
(from a card 2 of her friends sent to us)


Wake up with tears on my face
Don't remember my dreams
But I remember you

Time stands still
The pain never leaves
My heart aches for you

Why did this happen
Searching for a reason
Nothing makes sense

For the rest of my life
I'll wonder why

Missing your smile
The sound of your voice
I'll remember you always

















"The time came when the pain it took to stay,
was greater than the pain it took to go"






She is Gone

You can shed tears that she is gone
or you can smile because she has lived.

You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back
or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left.

Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her
or you can be full of the love you shared.

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

You can remember her and only that she’s gone
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back
or you can do what she’d want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.


David Harkins, © 1981
Silloth, Cumbria, UK



An Old Irish Blessing
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

(These two poems were read by Tracy's cousin JoAnn at the cemetery.)



"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.."




Listen closely
to the winds,
and hear the
gentle whisper
of an Angel's wings
in flight.

Look far into
the sky
and see the shimmering
stardust left behind.

Close your eyes,
clear your thoughts,
and feel the love
of your very own,
very real,
Guardian Angel.

~Author Unknown





Tracy, I had my baby 3-28-07 @ 23 weeks, and she was stillborn. Please watch over our baby girl. We named her Angel Brook Taormino. I know with you up in heaven she will be safe and well cared for. Give her a kiss for me please. Love Alisha Taormino



http://angelbrook-taormino.memory-of.com/











Bella's gift will be (amongst others) the improved safety for children in cars.

http://isabelle-broadhead.memory-of.com/About.aspx







"Thank you" Alisha



The mention of my child's name

may bring tears to my eyes,

But it never fails

to bring music to my ears.

If you are really my friend,

Let me hear the

beautiful music of her name.

It soothes my broken heart

& sings to my soul........





A Message to my Daughter

We walked together, you and I
A Mother and her Daughter
We had Hopes and Dreams for tomorrow.....
But tomorrow didn't come.

We walked together you and I
We talked, we laughed we loved.
We shared so many happy times,
And for that I thank the Lord above.

We walked together, you and I
But only for a short time.
For all too soon it ended
Leaving pieces of a broken heart behind

And even though I miss you
More than words could ever say.
I thank God that I got to walk with you
Every precious moment of every day....

"Thank You" to
Irena Hill (UK) (Nanny to angel Kayleigh Erceg )



"Healing from grief is not the process of forgetting,
it is the process of remembering with less pain and more joy."
















"Thank You" to Laurri ((((Rosie's mom))))

http://rosie-lowe.memory-of.com/About.aspx


















Tracy's brother & sister
Sept. 12, 2004







“Some people will surprise you because they’re there for you, and some will surprise you because they’re not.”











Tracy's Grandpa & Grandma
St. Charles cemetery



Grandparents High School photo









Tributes and Condolences
Abusive Relationships   / Nancy (Mom)
If you are in a “stormy” relationship there are certain questions you need to ask yourself, and the honest answers to those questions can help you to make the choice of whether to stay with that person or to leave the relationship. &...  Continue >>
Emotional Abuse   / Nancy (mom)
Emotional abuse is any behavior that is designed to control another person through the use of fear, humiliation, and verbal or physical assaults. It can include verbal abuse and constant criticism to more subtle tactics like intimidation, manipulatio...  Continue >>
Almost 4 years...   / Nancy (Mom)
Next Friday is Seva Jean's 5TH birthday her party will be held on Sunday. Her 1st birthday party was the last family get together that Tracy attended...I have a few photos of her from that day.The other night we were at the park waiting for the firew...  Continue >>
S.O.B.  / Nancy (Mom)
He thought his dreams were more important,expected her to hold him up.In his illness where reality hides behind lies.What a coward he has always been...the truth scares him.His hold on sanity is tenuous,it continues to baffle his mind.Can't grasp why...  Continue >>
Family Ties   / Nancy (mom)
Family ties are precious bondsWoven through the years,With memories of togethernessBy laughter, love and tears.Family ties are cherished thingsForged in happy childhood days,By love of parents deep and true,By tradition and family ways.Family ties ar...  Continue >>
Pain / Nancy (Mom)    Read >>
Tracy's Wedding Dress  / Nancy (Mom)    Read >>
WE DO NOT NEED A SPECIAL DAY  / Nancy (mom)    Read >>
I remember  / Nancy (mom)    Read >>
Tracy's Plant  / Nancy (mom)    Read >>
In Memory of You  / Nancy (mom)    Read >>
memories... / Nancy (mom)    Read >>
How to Dance in the Rain  / Nancy (Mom)    Read >>
Happy Mother's Day...  / Nancy (Mom)    Read >>
If it should be.  / Nancy (Mom)    Read >>
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Her legacy
More than a Sister.....  
Tracy was more than a sister to me, she was one of my best friends.  Starting when we were little, I looked up to her.  I thought she was perfect and wanted to be just like her. I have so many good memories of our childhood and growing up together.  Tracy and I shared a room for several years and she always used to trick me into cleaning it and I always fell for it.  I used to borrow her clothes without asking and she would get mad at me.  When she was in high school she would take me shopping and out for lunch.   After I graduated from High School we became alot closer.  I found out that she wasn't perfect like I had thought and that made me like her more. I started working at the movie theatre with her and we played on a softball team together.  We had so much fun together......we would laugh to the point of crying.  We always used to tease my mom together.  On my mom's birthday last year Tracy and I were driving past a car dealership that was having a sale and had huge amounts of balloons.  Tracy said to me, "Lets come back after dark and steal those balloons for mom!"  We ended up just asking if we could have the balloons and they gave them to us.  We put them on the front porch and waited for my mom to go outside and find them.  We just laughed alot together.  The last several months of her life we took lots of walks together and talked about everything...little stuff and big stuff.  I always knew that I could tell Tracy anything and she wouldn't judge me, she would just listen and probably laugh with me.  I used to stop by the movie theatre when she was working and just hang out there with her. I stood up for her when she got married and am sad that she wasn't able to do the same for me.  I had always said that my sister was going to be my only bridesmaid when I got married, since I couldn't have her I had my brother, that way I wasn't replacing Tracy with anyone.  I know she was there with me in spirit that day and I think she will be there in spirit for me the rest of my life.  I miss her so much, my heart just aches at the thought of her being gone. I remember saying after her funeral that I don't have a sister anymore...but thats not true....Tracy will always be with me in my heart, she is a part of me and always will be.  Tracy gave me a necklace for Christmas many years back that was half a heart and said *little sister* and she had one that said *big sister*.  I now wear both halves of the heart...... so when I am having a bad day I reach up and touch my necklace and know that Tracy is close by.  I love you Tracy and I always will.

Written by Tracy's little sister....Julie on 3/1/05
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